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The First Monday in September

September 1, 2022 by Simple Rules Foundation

For more than 100 years, here in the U.S. we have celebrated Labor Day, the first Monday in September.  This annual tribute is dedicated to the social and economic achievements of American workers and recognizes the many contributions workers have made to our country.

The first Labor Day holiday was observed in New York City in 1882, in accordance with the guidelines of the Central Labor Union.  While so much has changed in the world of work, as well local and global economies, traditional time-honored holiday activities continue:  parades, speeches, festivals for the “recreation and amusement of the workers and their families,” and picnics.

One of my favorite images of Labor Day is set in Independence, Kansas, where Flo Owens, a middle-aged widow lives with her two daughters and a spinster boarder.  When drifter Hal Carter arrives in time for the town’s Labor Day celebration, the women’s lives are disrupted and transformed.  I am, of course, talking about William Inge’s Pulitzer Prize winning play, Picnic. 

While a touching snapshot of small-town life, Picnic is the story of a stranger who breezes into town and unwittingly and unexpectedly becomes a catalyst for change.  Familiar, long-held patterns suffer a seismic shift. Everyday lives are stirred up and long-suppressed feelings of bitterness and resentment emerge.  But it is also about awakening passion, fighting for your dreams, glimpsing the possibilities, and feeling a tug in your throat.

It seems to me that we’re pretty stirred up right about now, too.  Putting aside election hullabaloos, we scramble to get in that last outdoor summer adventure; we dash from one back-to-school sale to another; and we begin to plan for Homecoming and Halloween.  (Pay no attention to that sign that says “Only 114 shopping days left til Christmas.”)

In addition, commuter traffic is back to normal, lunch rooms and coffee shop lines are once again crowded, and school buses are back to their neighborhood pick-ups.  At work, performance reviews are approaching, trainings schedules are filling up, final grant reports are due, and fiscal years are both ending and beginning.  And our fall/winter To-Do lists are growing at an alarming rate!

Of course Labor Day is not the end of the summer; that happens several weeks later with the Autumnal Equinox.  It just feels like it.  As we once again settle into routines and behind our desks recalling fond vacation memories, we may want to also think about our daily labor in terms of connections, coherence, and change.

Let’s take advantage of the shifting light, the changing colors and the varying winds.  Let’s look forward to disruption in our routines, welcome new challenges and seek out opportunities for excellence and growth.  Let’s recognize and appreciate the contributions of others, as well as our own.  Let’s remain clear about who we are, what is really important, and how we want to connect with others.

Let’s remember our Simple Rules.

 

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Navigating a Political Season

July 5, 2022 by Simple Rules Foundation

Here in the United States we are in the middle of election season: two major parties vying for the votes of constituents across town as well as across the country.  Whether nationally, locally or around the dinner table, voters are debating the policies, positions, and integrity of candidates to do what they promise to do, and govern in the best interests of all the people they represent.

Unfortunately, these politically charged times tend to bring out the worst – as well as the best – in people, including those running for office!  Airwaves are filled with political ads containing at least as much fiction as fact; every time a candidate states, “I never said that,” we can search the internet to find exactly when he DID say that; polls change from minute to minute and still manage to reflect someone’s bias; and special interests seem to get all the attention their money will buy.

Confused? You betcha!  So let me offer a simple and elegant tool called Adaptive Action, developed by Dr. Glenda  Eoyang through her exciting work in Human Systems Dynamics.  This tool consists of three simple questions:  What? So What? and Now What?  These questions can help you see, understand, and influence what is going on around you – and are valuable in creating your own simple rules.  Using this process, you can gather information; make meaning of it; and then act.  For example:

What (do you know)? 

  • What is the candidate saying now?
  • What has the candidate said in the past?
  • Are the candidate’s messages inclusive or exclusive; positive or negative?
  • Do you know who the candidate is; what is important to the candidate; and how the candidate connects with people?
  • What is the candidate’s approach to addressing tough issues?
  • Who is able to influence the candidate?
  • Advertisements are the best that money can buy and their focus is effect not accuracy.

So What (does that mean)?

  • Are the candidate’s priorities and values aligned with your own?
  • Does the candidate speak and act with integrity?
  • Can you trust this candidate to do what s/he says?
  • Are the candidate’s personal and professional histories transparent and reflective of his/her beliefs?
  • Do you believe this candidate?
  • Does this candidate really care about you?

Now What (are you going to do)?

  • Support the best individual.
  • Help individuals register to vote.
  • Vote for your candidate.

And, in the spirit of the season, let me offer some simple rules for that individual running for office. If these resonate with you, hold them up against your favorite contender and see how they measure up.

Simple Rules for individuals running for office.
  • Support health, well-being, safety and security.
  • Engage the community.
  • Create a sense of belonging.
  • Practice and promote social justice.
  • Stand up for diversity and inclusion.
  • Do no harm.

 

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